# My husband has been on dating sites

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He's been lying apparently the last 5-7 years. My girls are watching me and I must make smart not emotional choices for there sakes. So- you say it is her reaction that can save their marriage?\
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Now I feel like he is more distant always playing video games and late at night on his phone. How can I check my personal email to find out what the forgotten website subscriptions. Last year my mum met and my feelings changed, he became suspicious of me and accused me of cheating. And we can be happy. Ashley Madison is an internet dating website aimed at married people who want to find another person to cheat with. This all comes down to trust. If you have custodes, forget about leaving him, and definitely get our help to put this behind you. The site can tell you if your partner is matched as being in a relationship with another member. So it's basically for sex and not for real dating. It's been two months since I found out and he hasn't done it yet. You cannot solo the things in his mind, but you can alter the outer conditions, meaning how you are with him. Now, you have to analyze what to do.

Before we had our talk. Hopefully these postings will help others feel comfortable with their feelings and decisions. He has broken the bond of trust so where else do you see the relationship going?\
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**How to Find Out If My Husband Has an Internet Dating Profile** - He then said it was my fault for being insecure.\
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My husband is on dating sites looking for casual sex! What should I do? Tagged as: , , Question - 24 April 2007 17 Answers - Newest, 1 June 2015 A female age 51-59, anonymous writes: Dear cupid i have just found out that my husband has asked for casual sex on the internet dating sites, i am shocked to discover this as i know our sex life was not very active at the moment but i didnt think it warranted this kind of behaviour! I am not a prood by any length but hes also put his photo on there as well as his postcode etc. Please help i dont know what to do last year he phoned sex lines and his mum bailed him out of debt with the bank also he had one night stand two years ago!! He says hes sorry! We've been married for 5 years now and his my first marriage and i am his 3rd marriage. I'm only 33 years old and his in 60's. I dont understand why he needs to be on all those sites. I confronted him one time and as usual he denied it. From that day and even until now his been on a lot of a dating site well you name it. We are both sexually active and im not bad looking for him to find ladies out there. Totally internet and social media are ruining a lot of marriages. This year im going to visit my family in the philippines and i found a few new sites that he just signed in and im sick and tired of deleting all of his profiles and accounts. I havent confronted him about it because theres no use because he will always denies it so what for... Stop being a boring prune in bed and give him more blowjobs and spice up the sex life. A female reader, , writes 19 November 2010 : I was reading all these situations and am having a similar situation myself. We have been back together for 18 months now and I am 8 months pregnant. We got into an argument and briefly discussed seperating. The next day we realized that is not what we want. We want to be a family. But my husband randomly started talking about having a three-some, but not in a joking manner. I would never want to see my husband having sex with another. Then the next day I found out he went on to craigslist and posted an added for a friend with benefits. When confronted, he said he deleted that and never responded to any responses back. I dont know what to do... A female reader, , writes 28 December 2008 : So yeah, great christmas, online sex sites, strip clubs, found condoms he thought they were mints... Has any recovered and saved their marriage and bettered their marriage? Then email me and talk to me. And I like sex, and I do fun sex acts, I am crafty, in another life, I was a hooker I never was, but you know what I mean , so I don't get it.... A female reader, anonymous, writes 23 February 2008 : I believe my husband is also having an affair s on me using online dating... When we were dating, it was internet porn. I guess I should have not made such a big deal about that compared to this! In retrospect, the porn was fantasy, but these sites are real - right in your city. He can hook up with someone right in our town! I'm sick to my stomach and don't know what to do. This is my first marriage, and i know in my heart I don't deserve this, but I'm not ready to be divorced. A male reader, anonymous, writes 18 December 2007 : Hi there i am sorry for all the pain the inernet is causing all of you but there is always a place to find cheaters other than the net i am not married and not that good looking but i have no trouble finding sex partners the sad thing is 9 out of every 10 are married and seeking sex on the side so i have to say that women do it as much a women but i find that women are just a whole lot smarter about it thats all. A male reader, anonymous, writes 10 December 2007 : Men do this sort of thing. He will not be able to explain his actions satisfactorally so ask him one quetion. Would he ever do it again. If he looks away with his eyes even for a microsecond he is lying. Start planning to move on in the relationship. I cannot say bin him- that is up to you. He has broken the bond of trust so where else do you see the relationship going? Anyway good luck for the future. A female reader, anonymous, writes 17 October 2007 : My husband did the same thing and it almost destroyed me and our family.. First you need to realize this is about him not you.. He is lacking self worth and self disapline. He is acting very selfish and disconcerned about his actions. He does not respect himself, there for, he will not respect others. If you choose to stay in this and try and fix it... Dont lose yourself in this pain... Dont faulter on other lack of strength... This is what I did... If he wants to act like a child than I expected his actions to be just that. I treated this situation as if he was a 5 year old learning how to ride a bike. I watched him and confronted him with each attempt to go off the path.. Evenually he learned how to ride the bike.... My husband learned how to love me and respect me. But he also learned how to be a man. A female reader, , writes 2 May 2007 : Sad! Sad that the internet is ruining so many marriages! My husband is back on dating sites match. Last summer I caught him via using spy software on adultfriendfinder seeking out women there. Course when I confronted him with the pictures of the sites he visited he denied it and became defensive as is usual when a man is cornered when caught telling a lie or cheating. He doesn't know yet that I found out a couple days ago he is back on those sites. We've been married 2. First husband of 20 years and three daughters later cheated on me with best friend. Met and fell in love with my new husband even though I knew he was seeing other women when we were seriously dating. Why does he go to those sites? I have no idea. I have more of a sex drive than he does. I do feel bad for all the women who have to go through the traumatic emotions of finding out their husband is lured into online porn, etc. It's the cause of more divorces today than anything else. Men don't understand how their online porn activities hurt us women. It's degrading to us as well as insulting and humiliating to us! A male reader, anonymous, writes 25 April 2007 : It sounds like these sites are addictive to some people. I have caught my girlfriend sending young men 20 years her junior pics of her bits. Caught her on a flirt text that can go to your mobile. A female reader, , writes 25 April 2007 : It's always about the man isn't it... It always the bad man. The sooner this good old world realizes that sex and love are two different things, the sooner it will be better for all. I'm very sorry you are feeling so terrible, but you do need to consider that a man can love you very much and still have sex with another woman... A female reader, , writes 25 April 2007 : youve got to get rid of this man. If I didn't live in Tennessee I'd take you over to her house MYSELF!!!!! If your husband wants to waste his life on some chick that doesn't care enough about herself then to charge men to listen to her moan on a telephone line then leave him... But how much more should you take from this man? How many more times is he going to be bored? It seems to me that you already know whats up with this one...... I do wish you the best and please feel free to email or keep me posted!!! A female reader, anonymous, writes 25 April 2007 : hi there well its 3. A reader, anonymous, writes 25 April 2007 : Wow I sure hope there are some answers to this one, I am in the same boat and I am ready to pull every hair out of both of our heads. They must think life is a joke. Well I for one am so upset I do not know where to turn, but by god, I am not going to let this ruin my life for another ten years. A female reader, , writes 25 April 2007 : I am so sorry that you are going through this. I know it must have felt like a horrible betrayal to discover your husband on these sites, because it WAS a horrible betrayal. I am concerned about the history of this behaviour. A man using sex lines until he has amassed a debt that he needs his mother to bail him out of--especially when he has a wife and two children--is a man with a deeper problem. When you confronted him and he said he was sorry, did he follow-up by removing his profile? Did he promise to stop his behaviour? My suggestion to you would be to broach the subject of getting into couple's counseling. That your husband is ready to start looking for casual encounters behind your back, rather than talking to you about his needs, is a concern. If you are to survive in this relationship, you need to get to the bottom of his sexual issues and learn to communicate within your relationship. It isn't just about sex--this is about trust and respect. I wish you the best of luck.
